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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة آمنة عمر

فائقة.. إقرئي ماوراء سطور(رجال) سودانيات ستعثرين على طرائق مختلفة وأفكار شريرة للإحتيال على أن القلب يمكنه أن (يشيل إتنين) وربما أكثر!
وبعضهم لديه أيدلوجية للحكاية
ولا شنو

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إزيك يا أمونة ...

كإجابة مباشرة ... لا يحمل القلب إلا شريك واحد فقط ..

أما الاحساس بالراحة والرفقة الطيبة وحتى "الإستملاح" من "ملاحة" بفتح الميم وتشديد اللام وليس "ملاح" بضم الميم
فهذا موضوع آخر...
عندما يتعلق الموضوع بتقدير الجمال والرقة والابتسامة الجميلة فخالك لا حدود ولا قيود أو محاذير تقف أمامه ..
أما ما دون ذلك فلا شأن لي به

وحتى لا تعتبر إجابتي هروبا من تهمة من زولة "جميييييلة" هاكم المقال ده وهو عن "راجل المرا" أو عن العلاقات العاطفية بين إمرأة "صادقة" ورجال من فئات عمرية مختلفة ..
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Are all of the good men taken? And if they’re not…what’s wrong with them?
by mssinglemama on October 26, 2007

It’s been over a year and a half now of pure singleness and in that time I’ve been dating.

Trying all of my options, refusing to shut any doors based on age, looks or personality quirks. I’ve dated men of all ages..26, 31, 33, 37, 38 and even 47! I’m 28.

The 47 year old was an incredibly interesting single father but there was no spark.The 37 year old calls himself a monk and can’t actually be with women physically. The 31 year old had an addiction to porn. The 26 year old wouldn’t or couldn’t stop talking about himself. The list goes on and on…

I have found that no matter what the age - they all have issues. But, as they age, these “issues” become even more solidified and the chances of changing or maybe correcting them are slim to none. If they’ ve been single for most of their adult life - what are the odds they’re finally going to take the plunge and “settle down.”It just leads me to wonder if there’s even a chance of finding an attractive, successful, happy, well-rounded man (over 30) who hasn’t been snatched up yet. Or one who actually wants a serious relationship.

If a guy is over 30 and has yet to commit to a woman in his life is there even a chance he would commit to a single mom? I just can’t see it happening. Besides, why would we waste our times with non-commital guys? We can’t. This is my new red flag…men over 30 who have never been married or had kids.

So, with that said - I have two options:

1. Dating divorced men or single dads.

We know they can commit. We can determine rather quickly what happened in their last relationship. Was it a mis-match from the beginning? Did he try everything in his power to keep her? Did she cheat on him or vice versa? He’s already been married, we can see how he handled it. Single fathers would understand the “baby thing” and we would also be able to tell what kind of parent they are - double bonus!

2. Dating younger men.

Ahhh…younger men. I’m talking 23-26. They are young, hopeful, unjaded and have little to no baggage. Sure they use terms you may not understand like, “most def”: translation - most definitely. But they are so refereshing. In just a few years time these younger men are bound to be snatched up and gone - off the market forever. It is so tempting to think that maybe, just maybe you could mold this young man into your perfect husband. They’re also fun, refreshing and so quick to fall in love and give you everything.

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